Unclear questions

Written by Jim Chaput
After a 19-year career in financial services, Jim left a leadership position to focus on health and fitness. Jim is a Master Practitioner of Applied Movement Neurology and holds Certificates in Applied Functional Science and 3DMAPS from the Gray Institute. His passion is empowering people to help resolve the pain, tension and insomnia that prevents them from living well.

Social media amuses me at times. In groups focused on nutrition or coaching, people sometimes post questions so vague that there are many interpretations.

Even more amusing, some people answer the questions as if they are clear. Other people know the question is unclear and open with, “Not sure what you mean, but…” and give the answer to the question they imagine the person asked.

It’s generous to share your knowledge and help others. When you’re not sure what they need, maybe it’s better to find out before trying to help.

How much better off would we be if fewer people read minds and more people actively listened?

1 Comment

  1. Pat

    Life happens.
    I find it difficult to say what I mean and mean what I say
    when things are constantly changing. It’s hard to feel in control of anything .
    We try harder. Every day is a new day. Inspiration helps. I am grateful.