Do what works

Do what works

Looking for the next great thing might be a waste of time. If you have things that work, keep doing them unless they stop working. Ideally, do the important things every day. If you don’t have time to do what’s important, you may want to rethink how you spend your...
Do something unexpected

Do something unexpected

One of the ways to be interesting is to behave in unexpected ways. If people know exactly what you will say and how you will behave, they may see you as boring. “The one unforgivable sin is to be boring” ― Christopher Hitchens, Hitch 22: A Memoir I have a reputation...
When in doubt, eliminate negativity

When in doubt, eliminate negativity

I recently wrote about competing goals. The conflict goes on until you achieve or let go of one of the goals. I keep debating whether to save money or pay down debt. Should I do the thing that might make me happy or eliminate the thing I know makes me unhappy? Having...
Perceived danger (by Trish)

Perceived danger (by Trish)

A small family of birds made a nest on top of our front entry light fixture. It has been fascinating to watch the parents preparing the nest, sitting on the eggs, feeding the new hatchlings and then seeing the little ones fly away. It brings me joy every day when I...
No rational explanation

No rational explanation

One of the challenges with correcting irrational behavior is that there may be no rational explanation for why it occurred. I recently flew off the handle and I’m not sure why. What exactly should I do to avoid it next time? I’m hoping that non-violent communication...