When you ask someone to do something for you, be specific about when you need it and the standard you want them to meet. If your expectations are unclear, expect to be disappointed. If you tend to minimize requests, “It will only take you two minutes,” what are you really saying?
“It will only take two minutes, but I cannot be bothered to do it myself.”
“It is so easy that you can only meet my expectations or disappoint me.”
When someone asks you to do something for them, you need to know when they need it and how much time you should spend on it. This gives you a sense of the priority and how deep you need to go. If they do not include these details in the request, it is in your best interest to ask.
Whether you are asking or being asked, are the expectations clear?
I’m a real skater … around the edges, fearful to say what I need in case a reaction occurs.
Great post. Will practice being more task time defined
It might not be easy at first, but if it is worth the time to ask for help, it is worth being clear with your expectations.