Why wait?
We all have one problem or another. Sometimes solutions are expensive and take a long time. Other times, you can take small steps and enjoy immediate benefits.
After getting around to fixing a few things that I had put off, I realized I should have acted sooner. Putting things off often makes things worse. Taking action now leads to peace of mind.
If you could solve a problem with little cost or not much effort, why wait?
PS – sometimes things are easier to fix than expected. Find out what’s involved and then decide whether to wait.
Hopefully, my questions cause you to reflect on your own thinking, relationships or choices. Maybe I even inspire you to make positive changes.
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