Add to the discussion
As I have mentioned previously, I sometimes wonder whether social media is worth the trouble. Many of the comments I read seem either mean-spirited or a waste of time. If you’re not part of the solution, you’re part of the problem. So here’s my advice:
- If you don’t have anything nice to say, it may be better to keep your comment to yourself.
- If you’re going to comment, add something.
What advice would you offer to improve the social media experience?
Hopefully, my questions cause you to reflect on your own thinking, relationships or choices. Maybe I even inspire you to make positive changes.
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